Bipolar girlfriend split up with me and I need her back?
Rallip57 Asked: Bipolar girlfriend split up with me and I need her back?
I've been with my girlfriend for a year and a half now, and although she refuses to believe it, I am almost
certain that she has bipolar disorder.
I've known her for nearly 3 years now, and EVERY single April/October she will go on another phase, where she completely changes, loses her self-respect and ends up finishing with me to be on her own.
It happened last April, and after a month of pain and agony we got back together after she calmed down. I knew I could wait for her but it was so hard. Luckily, she hadn't done anything stupid and it was ok.
It has now happened again, it being October, but this time she slept with a random guy the night before we broke up. I've tried so hard to get through to her that this is her losing it again but she doesn't listen. The other night I waited outside her house while she was out and she came back with another guy. I told her not to make this mistake and that I can forgive her for what she's done and fight through it, but by this point she was already gone and into her mental state. She told me she didn't want to be with me, that she wanted to be single and she ended up leaving me outside and going into her house with this other guy.
It's killing me. So so much. But I know it's because of her disorder and I've no idea what I can do to get through to her. The longer it goes on the more people she will sleep with and it is killing me. I don't know where to set my boundaries. I don't want to leave her, but the more I push the more I'll anger her. Not only this but I worry for her to, when I KNOW in a month's time she will regret everything and it will be too late.
Please help me. I don't know what I can do.
Answers:
why dont you talk to her about it
answer min eplease
I feel your pain…more than you know…
Sure, you can take drugs your entire life. But that will never give you pure happiness. Human mechanics is a lot simpler than you might think. On the inside, something's forcing us to react in certain ways, whether we like it or not. There's a power inside us all, and sometimes we abuse that in many ways more than one.
You have to force yourself to be who YOU want to be. You can't listen to anger, and you can't listen to the bad side of things. Make your own world, don't let a few labels make it for you.
Go to sleep tonight. But put this in your mind: Know, that in the morning, you will wake up completely relieved. You'll spontaneously give everything all you've got. You'll be happy. Show the side that you want people to see. Feel good about yourself. Know that there's so many amazing things about you that you just want to show off.
You might hate me after this next comment but:
Quit being such a bum, live your life and open yourself up to the sunshine.
It just takes a little joy to wake up in the morning. And we, as humans, can create it with ease.
It is not just you, the media is always portraying that because we have certain habits, it must be a mental illness. I personally am 'OCD' as well, the same way your are with order but it's not a mental illness in my opinion. I think you feel this way because you think there should always be something wrong with you. The only way you can be 'normal' by your own definition is to be happy and try not to think about it. I believe in you!
I'm sorry that you have depression and anxiety as well as being bipolar but I think you need to understand that all these things that you think you have like OCD are extreme cases. Everyone punches stuff when they have a legitimate reason to be angry. If you had anger issues then you would be caving in walls every time someone looks at your wrong or cuts in front of you in traffic. And if you actually had these other diseases they would be so noticeable that people would actually tell you that you have a problem. Thats why I like watching shows like MTV True Life. Everyone thinks they have tourets or ADD until they watch those shows, believe me. So rest easy, everyone goes a little "crazy" sometimes but most people who have issues dont really realize it or ponder it, they try to defend it. I think you're just paranoid and you have to start taking the bad with the good because your depression and anxiety might actually be causing you to think like this. Of course I'm no doctor, I'm just speaking from the little prior knowledge I have. Thats just my 2 cents. Take care.
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